I always end up asking the question, "So, what are you eating at home?"
And, sure enough, they begin to list off the same standard items belonging to a calorie-controlled, perfectly portioned, low-fat diet straight from one of the many books or diet plans we market in our country.
They hold onto such plans like life rafts, and it takes a real come-to-Jesus moment for me to shake them loose and go, "But it's not working!"
And then, even if they can acknowledge that, they still don't want to heed my next piece of advice:
"Try incorporating better sources of fat in your diet - grass-fed beef, avocados, organic dairy."
Immediately, they look at me as if I'm crazy. They begin to doubt my credentials as a trainer, what with me listing off a regimen of typical "high-fat" foods.
It's frustrating, for me and for them. We're stuck at an impasse.
But now? I have a solution.
Now, I'm going to hand them the book Why Women Need Fat by William D. Lassek, M.D., and Steven J.C. Gaulin, Ph. D.
While I don't feel like the information in the book is earth-shatteringly new - eat less processed, packaged food; eat organic, grass-fed animal products - I think it finally laid out, clearly, why women in our country gain weight the way they do, historically and personally.
It points a clear finger at the food industry, who made popular the use of corn and soybean oil - a huge source of "bad" fats, or omega-6s. And it lays blame on food and nutrition's governing bodies, who clearly ignored research that showed "low-fat" diets do not help weight-loss or heart-disease, as they were originally intended.
The book then goes on to explain why women need "good" fats - omega-3s (DHA and EPA) - for child-bearing purposes. But in our society, where studies show most American women are taking in only a quarter of the omega-3s necessary, our bodies actually hoard the fat we do take in, which, thanks to our love of packaged, easy food, are omega-6s, so as to make sure our children can reap enough DHA from our fat stores while in the womb.
It's all a messy cycle.
And while the book can get a bit bogged down at times, debating the vast literature that's out there about women's body fat and waist-to-hip ratios (an indicator of health and fertility, as the book explains), I found the read refreshing.
It explained what many of us in the industry already know; thankfully, it finally gives the science behind it.
And, to my great delight, it points a finger at the consumption of margarine, vegetable shortening, and other polyunsaturated fats marketed as low-fat butter substitutes, as the reason for the long-term indicators of weight-gain in women in America - something I've always held to.
Plus, it applauds a practice many nutritionists ignore - praising full-fat, but all-organic (and grass-fed), meats, cheeses, butters, and milks.
Amen and alleluia. We can have our cake and eat it, too. As long as it's made with the real stuff, fresh off the farm.
(The authors also point out that main-stream, non-organic animal products on the grocery store shelves normally come from animals fed a corn-based diet, i.e., a diet high in those nasty omega-6s. So the products on your average grocery store shelves and meat counters should still be eaten warily at best.)
With so many women on the diet train - a practice that actually starves the body and signals it to gain more weight - this book is a must-have if you're female and American.
Other than a few lapses in judgment when it came to trusting out-dated and dis-proven research on birth (they hint around at the fact that the C-section rate in our country is due entirely to the size of our larger babies - a statement that is largely incorrect when you take into account the piles of research and testimony conducted by natural birth-supporting OB-GYNs and midwives), I think any woman can understand the rather complicated compilation of research that supports what many of us have been saying for a while.
Real good tastes good. And real food is good for you.
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10 comments:
Great post! We had to change our eating habits drastically a few years ago because DH cannot eat ANY processed food, sugar, soy, lactose, starch. Everything he eats is the real deal (though we don't buy grass-fed meats). I haven't had "fake butter" in years and to be honest, it's really gross to think about. Real, homemade food is really good. Plain and simple.
Amen.
This was a great post. Other that Diet Coke...I never eat any "diet" food. The real stuff is so much better and as long as it's eaten in moderation will not make you fat!
Love this! Thanks for the post Britt:-)
A little off subject but a question. What are you best reccommendations on toning WITHOUT losing weight? I don't want to lose anymore weight at all, but I'd like to tone and shape what I've got! :)
My SIL is amazed at my kids - the older ones are 6, 7 and 9 and they ask "is this a good fat or a bad fat?" when given a new food. We never do 'low fat' in this house - low sugar - yes. Low salt - yes. Bad fat - yes. But good fats are always welcome!
And people still don't get the message.
I blame TV.
It's a weird adjustment for me--we had a lot of low fat/fat-free stuff in the house when I was growing up, and it's still hard for me to buy the full fat stuff sometimes (cheese, sour cream, etc), even though I KNOW it is healthier for you than all the chemicals in the fat-free stuff. I'm working on it though...
YES> YES> YES.
I have been eating like this for years. I will only use real butter. Olive oil. Coconut oil. I bake everything from scratch, I RARELY use packaged products, and I won't touch artificial sweeteners. WOMEN NEED FATS. Our brains don't function without proper fat consumption.
It drives me completely insane when people eat low fat. The right fats just help us, and our weight loss.
Diet food make me feel low on energy and give me such mood swings. I am happy with my normal diet and stick to my daily routine which includes making better choices, like walking extra, taking the stairs etc. I feared gaining weight out of complacency after marriage, but so far, no weight gain. In fact, I have lost weight and so has my husband! (He advises all his bachelor friends and colleagues these days to get married!!!)
I am only eating good, home made food even after eight years of having left home. And I too stick to this that if you eat good and fresh food and maintain a good lifestyle, you will not gain weight.
Perfect post and this book should be a good read for Indians too as we all head to the supermarkets to buy the imported diet foods mentioned in the latest fad diets.
Awesome! We buy an 8th of a cow once a year from a farmer my dad knows who has grass fed cattle, doesn't use growth hormones, and if he has to use an antibiotic on a cow he waits plenty of time to make sure it's out of their system before well---yanno. This post makes me feel good about what I'm feeding my family! I've used real butter too ever since I heard Dr Oz bash other "butters"- thanks for keeping us on top of things!
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