While there, I had them look at a little rash that comes and goes on Ella's chest and tummy from time to time.*
It looked like heat rash. It wasn't angry in appearance or infected. It was just a little rash that would flare up and then go almost completely away as if on it's own.
The doctor had only glanced at Ella when she exclaimed, "Eczema. She has eczema."
I, of course, freaked. I'd read enough to know that eczema is related to allergies and asthma, and just like allergies and asthma, eczema shows a generally weakened immune system.
I immediately began to wonder what I'd done to weaken my baby's immune system.
I began telling the doctor everything I'd ever eaten, knowing that often an eczema-related outbreak is due to an allergic reaction to something internal, like dairy (which I don't eat), soy (which I don't eat), eggs (which I eat very little of), citrus, or gluten.
The doctor told me she didn't think it was a reaction to food at all, as Ella wasn't showing any other kind of reaction (digestive, behavioral, etc.) to a food source; it was just that Ella had "extremely sensitive skin."
She made some suggestions, and I left the doctor's office even more puzzled, believe it or not; her definition of eczema was nothing like what I'd define eczema as.
So, later, at home, after doing some reading, I deduced that, indeed, Ella didn't really have eczema, medically speaking, at all. She just had skin that was reacting to things.
In fact, what Ella had was much more likely to be classified as "drool rash," according to a few books I read and Dr. Google. Some doctor's classify that as eczema in babies, it turns out.
In addition, a conversation with my mother reminded me that Ella had not inherited my skin tone; she had my husband's skin and, in fact, my mother's - and both of them have extremely dry skin that flares up out of almost nowhere.
Later that night, my mother-in-law re-iterated what my mom had said. In fact, she had a name for it: "Irish eczema." (My husband's family is Irish and fair, as is my mother. I have my father's skin-tone, even though I, too, am half Irish.)
"All my babies had that," my mother-in-law said. "It's not real eczema. It's just sensitive skin."
So, with that, I calmed down.
But I still wanted to find a solution for the rash. And I wasn't thrilled with the doctor's suggestion: She wanted me to put prescription cortisone (a steroid ointment) on it.
But previous reading I'd done had linked cortisone use to respiratory problems and other immuno-suppressed complications. That was a last-resort, as far as I was concerned.
So I whipped out my natural healing books, Googled some things, called our local health-food store, and went to a few places, including Target.
Within a few days, Ella's "Irish eczema" was completely gone.
And, so, today, because so many of you requested for me to share what I did last week, here's what worked for us:
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The cast of characters** I used are as follows:(Quick Note: Natural/homeopathic healing is labor-intensive. At the beginning of this, I was putting stuff on Ella up to six-seven times a day. So if you're looking for a quick-fix, this is not your cup of tea.)
1. Make bath-time, tea-time
We now bathe Ella no more than every other day. Water in and of itself is drying to the skin, and she's a baby. She's not that gross yet.
When she is bathed, I brew a cup of chamomile tea; let it steep for about an hour, and throw it in her bath water, which is luke-warm at best. (I also add a few drops of organic lavender essential oil, as it has a calming effect on the skin, too.)
The bath is quick, and the majority of the time, we pour the chamomile water over her body.
Then, we quickly wash her down with one of two soaps: Dove Sensitive Skin body wash (not for babies, so watch their eyes) or Dr. Bronner's Baby Mild Aloe Vera Organic Hemp Soap. (I much prefer this option, but Dove is good in a pinch.)
When she doesn't get a bath, I quickly sponge her down with a cloth wipe and a few squirts of chamomile tea, which I keep in my post-partum peri bottle. (I knew that thing would come in handy again.) I do the same thing every morning, as well. Chamomile and lavender are calming, and they work topically, as well.
2. Layer on your treatments
Morning and night, I applied the following layers of ointments:
*Florasone - a homeopathic alternative to cortisone, which you use no longer than seven days. (I saw improvement in less than two.) In extreme situations, I'd use it four times a day, as the bottle suggests, but Ella's rash wasn't that bad.
* Calendula cream - a homeopathic treatment for skin irritations, burns, cuts, and abrasions; this stuff works wonders. I use it on diaper rash, too. It's a God-send.
*Vitamin E - I simply bust open a capsule and pour it on the rash and rub it in. (I only use this if I'm noticing a real flare-up or if the skin is starting to really flake and dry out. Vitamin E promotes healing, but you can use too much of it. So once the rash starts to improve and goes away, nix the Vitamin E.)
*Raw shea butter and argan oil ointment - It's a grainy, long-term, deep moisturizer and helps keep the skin hydrated, as dry skin is much more easily irritated. (I found it funny that the stuff I found that contains these ingredients describes itself as "baby eczema therapy." Obviously, this isn't just a problem for Ella.) A great substitute for this would be CJ's Butter - a cloth-diapering-friendly diaper rash cream. It's a colloidal ointment, though, that works on eczema, and if Ella has a bit of a rash in her diaper area, I use this instead of the raw shea butter treatment, as CJ's Butter is a little creamier and a little less intense.
*Aquaphor or lanolin - Basically, this last waxy layer works as a barrier method. It protects the skin from the rubbing of clothes, etc.
*Olive oil - I dab this on any dry spots she may have on her head, legs, ears, or arms.
3. Do up-keep during diaper changes
Every time I changed Ella's diaper, I re-applied the calendula cream and the raw shea butter treatment to the rash, even though it wasn't in her diaper area. Once the rash improved, I dropped the calendula and just kept moisturizing with the raw shea butter at each change. (The brand I'm using has a combined ointment, containing more chamomile, I keep in my diaper bag, as does California Babies, I believe.)
The goal is to keep your baby as moisturized as possible, in an effort to protect her skin.
4. Help your baby along with your own intake
I try and take Vitamin C, beta-carotene, an extra probiotic (acidopholus is best), evening primrose oil (not shown) and some Vitamin E if I notice Ella's skin flaring a bit. Internally, they help get the job done, and since Ella is still exclusively breast-fed, I have to take them for her to reap the benefits.
5. Consider a what else is touching their skin
I have bad news for all you Dreft detergent lovers out there: The stuff has chemicals in, too. That's why it's not safe to use on cloth diapers. And it may be causing a reaction on your child's skin, too.
Make sure you are using a true "free and clear" detergent on your baby's clothes (I like Dropps, which are great for cloth diapers, too) and add in an extra hot rinse when you wash them.
Also, consider buying lotions and soaps made from organic ingredients. It's just another way to eliminate something that may cause a reaction on your baby.
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Hopefully, this works for you all who asked.This baby, or "Irish," eczema seems far more common than I ever realized. And, lately, it has my baby taking baths and getting rub-downs like she's a member of some four-star spa. (Or Baby Jesus himself. One of the ointments we're using has frankincense and myrrh in it. You can imagine the Christ-child jokes that have abounded.)
But all that aside, thankfully, this combination of treatments seems to work. I wish I'd taken before-and-after pictures, as Ella's skin is clear as can be these days. Even my husband was in awe, and he's not easy to impress.
Simply put, she looks like a new baby.
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*Our 4-month check up was literally three days after we were recovering from our first fever. I told the doctor that the fever had seemed to aggravate the rash - it was the worst I'd ever seen it - but the pediatrician quickly dismissed me, saying that "didn't make any sense." Still, considering how fast the treatment cleared up, I'm kind of mad that the doctor didn't listen to me. Because obviously, I wasn't making it up, and as Ella got healthier, the irritation cleared up super-quick, and I can't think it's all thanks to my mixture of ointments.**I bought almost everything here at Target, The Vitamin Shoppe, or my local health-food store. I didn't receive any compensation for mentioning these products. It's just what I found that works.
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Now, I'm no doctor. I'm not even an expert. I just combined some things I'd heard about and researched, skin-tested my daughter, and, knowing she could tolerate them, went for it. We got lucky, in part.So, please let me know if you have any questions at all, but I'm sure this isn't everyone's be-all-and-end-all solution.
It's just what worked for us, and if it can help anyone else, I'll be thrilled.
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Happy Monday, everyone!
14 comments:
it's so frustrating when a doctor just wants to shove unnecessary medicine at you. good for you for finding a better, safer, healthier alternative for your baby girl!
Connor battled Eczema last winter too. We bathed him on Sundays, Tuesdays, and Thursdays as to not dry out his skin. The Aveeno Eczema cleanser we would use to wash him with, then use the Aveeno Eczema lotion. If he would have a flare up, we used 1% hydrocortizone cream on the spot just once and it was pretty much gone.
Lol, did you buy out the whole grocery store? =)
Glad you found something to help that sweet Ella!!
Calendula is perfect for such rashes and you can even try coconut oil. I have been having rashes since childhood and even now. They are red and flare up out of nowhere! It was worse this monsoon, but coconut oil came to my rescue yet again!
You eat all organic, are anti western medication, but will wash your baby with Dove body wash (that does have some chemicals in it), all in an attempt to prove your doctor is wrong? I get wanting to be as natural as possible, but, jeez, it really seems like you have a complex here. You do not know better than all doctors and the entire medical establishment. Hooray that all was well with this attempt at self medication, since it was clearly not something debilitating or life threatening, but it seems like you need to get your ego about these sorts of things in check. It is not about you being right all the time. The doctor has sweet Ella's best interest at heart too.
Thank you for this post! My son gets horrible diaper rashes. I've tried countless creams on it and it doesn't seem to help. I even try mixing them. I'm going to try the calendula stuff next time. Where do I get it?
Thanks
Kim
Hey Anonymous, why don't you grow a pair and post your mean spirited, hurtful, insulting, and RIDICULOUS comment under your real name like the rest of us? There is no room for your animosity and judgment here.
Britt, we eat organic, will selectively vax, our girl has only ever had breastmilk, and I almost cried when we gave her TYLENOL for the first time, but there are just some things I can't give up: microwave popcorn, aeresol hairspray, and fabric softener, just to name a few of the many, many atrocities you will find in my "green" household.
I have been dismissed by Doctors as well. It is not a good feeling and it makes me trust them even less. I am glad this concoction of remedies helped. At swim lessons this weekend some lady asked if I was I a homeopathic healer. I laughed and said no, but I try to be as natural as I can. Lol. I think you could have answered yes!
I agree, you do seem to want to take care of your daughter that best way possible, but don't easily dismiss your doctor's opinion. All those years in medical school were not to just piss off moms. Believe it or not, they do have a clue and talk to them about your concern and ideas.
And people post Anonymous to avoid negative feedback (from blogger and readers) for being honest and expressing our opinion the same way Ella mom does. If she didn't want an open dialog than she shouldn't be posting to a blog. We all have a right to express our opinion, I have yet to see a "mean" comment, just people expressing their concerns and opinions.
I think you take great care of your baby, but don't be surprise when everyone doesn't agree with you. Guess what, everything doesn't agree with me all the time either.
To the second Anonymous poster: Please reread your second paragraph. You are exactly right-a blog initiates OPEN dialog. How is it that you feel that you are entitled to remain anonymous on what you call an OPEN dialog? Posting anonymously doesn't allow an open dialog-it's hiding behind opinions. I'm sorry, but that paragraph doesn't make much sense to me.
The issue isn't whether or no other Moms agree with each other. The issue is whether or not we do so respectfully. Brittany is a good friend of mine, and she and I see eye to eye on some things, and other things we do not. Never ONCE have we engaged in judgmental dialogue regarding our parenting choices. This blog community is about providing respectful, nonjudgemental support and advice. You don't have to agree with methods you read about on blogs. You are free to speak about your difference of opinion, but do so in a respectful manner without hiding behind an anonymous name.
so i'll be the first kind anonymous poster (as i don't have a blog--but i read here and have ever since finding brittsbeat at throughcloudedgass). yeesh, y'all.
i commend you for your efforts to keep your and your family's bodies pure and healthy. we are spirit and body and i believe you do know better than any doctor what is going on with your family and what is best for you. it may not be conscious, and is likely not, but you do know. and when you search for truth you'll find it. sounds like your research is just that and i am proud of you for seeking the truth.
i think you're a fantastic writer. i am not into the blog world but i do make time to read your blog among the two others i read because yours is always a great read.
wishing you wellness and joy, angela
I just want to say that when my son (he's 8 now) was an infant he had eczema (and still does to a slight degree) and we were given a prescription ointment to use. But, I found that limiting baths (you do this already and this was also suggested by our ped) and switching to a Florasone & Calendula cream combo worked well for us. I still to this day swear by Aquaphor and we've always used "free & clear" detergents. Now, I make my own laundry detergent.
I think Ella is in good, more than capable hands. It's OK to question your doctor's advice. Granted, they have more medical knowledge than we do, but sometimes a mother's intuition is far more valuable.
Wow, holy cow. Just getting caught up on blogs, and that first anonymous comment is...vitriolic. Wow. And @PaigeR530 hit the nail on the head about anonymity.
I think you addressed it well in today's post: People are focusing on entirely the wrong things. :) Obviously, I have a personal stake in defending pediatricians, because I have lived through what those folks go through to practice medicine, and I can assure you that they really do have a baby's best interest at heart. I would just love to remind you and encourage you to remember that in the grand scheme of moms, you're in about the 1% of women who thoroughly do their research and have deep-seated convictions behind your choices. It's shocking - really, truly renders me speechless - to hear about how many mothers DH meets who never even so much as flipped through a complimentary copy of "What to Expect When You're Expecting" while waiting for their OB appointments in the waiting room.
Differing choices and differing parenting styles don't make me sad - a complete refusal to educate oneself on all the options before undertaking another human life does. :( Thorough research that arrives at different conclusions is simply the natural course of things.
All that to say, if you ever feel like a doc isn't giving you enough credit, please don't take it personally: just consider that you're in the minority. You might be the only mom he/she sees or talks to who is *thoughtfully* prepared to execute holistic and homeopathic alternatives. And also, it's not personal: med school indoctrinates against HH treatments. :( You should have seen DH's face when I ordered an amber necklace for the teething baby...lol. But an educated mother is THE EXCEPTION, not the rule, so your ped might be coloring you with a broad brush, but it's not personal. As my college pastor used to say, "thicker skin and softer heart." :)
So glad Ella's skin is sweet and smooth again. :) The hubs and I (and so all the kids too), have non-colored rough bumpy patches on the backs of our upper arms. Maybe this is irish eczema too...? I might have to try out your remedy. :)
Not once when reading your posts Brittany, did it come across to me as trying to "prove your dr wrong". Like you don't have enough to do, let's just add "proving the dr wrong" to your todo list.
It came across as a mother using her God given MIND to make her own informed desisions. We are taught to accept the word of the "experts" with out question. It's so easy to go the dr and get an easy fix but you are going to a lot of extra work to take care of Ella and that does not deserve the criticism and judgment some anonymous people are leaving here.
I hope you don't allow them to keep you from posting those sorts of things because the rest of us are learning a lot from you. Thank you.
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